This guy shows a lot of insight into relationships (perhaps because he has the unique position of being able to analyze from the outside, since relationship-forming is not a natural skill for most Aspies? Just guessing, though.).
He cites here 7 habits that interfere with your social life.
I would like to suggest that they be read as 7 things that can destroy a marriage or relationship with your children--with your looking at YOU, not your spouse or child.
After all, you can't change them. But you can change you.