While I have yet to see 3rd Wave Feminism in print, I'm starting to find a few 3rd wave feminists in person, and I'm finding that some of them I really respect and agree with on most (or all) points, and they don't fit the experience I've had with feminists that prompted the previous two posts.
So...it's very convoluted. Clearly feminism means what you want it to mean.
But I'm still not joining.
And if I fight for things like my right to be respected for staying home with my kids, I'm not calling it feminism, even if you do.